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Finding Genealogy Clues in the Family Cemetery

Family cemeteries are gold mines for you the genealogist. But, I have to ask….

Are You Finding All Possible Genealogy Clues in the Family Cemetery?

Are you missing important clues to your research questions? Do you leave the cemetery  where your ancestor is buried with answers or clues to the next step in your research?

In my excitement of just finding a particular ancestor’s gravestone, I have missed important genealogy clues in the family cemetery. I want to help you not make the same mistakes I did.

Let’s look at a few interesting family cemeteries/plots together.

Rev. Caswell Suggs Harward

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Rev. Caswell Suggs Harward [Howard] died in 1871 in NC and is buried in the Baptist Chapel Church cemetery near Sanford, NC. Caswell was 42 yeas old at the time of his death.

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His wife Mary Adline [Thomas] Harward is buried with her husband. [Her information is on the back side of the tombstone.]

The gravestone gives the basics: His name, birth date, and death date. We get a little more information by the use of the title “Rev” supporting what we know about Caswell being a minister.

Now it’s time to look around.

This is a church cemetery. For all practical purposes, Baptist Chapel Church cemetery functions as a family cemetery. The church itself is a newer structure (having been re-built due to a fire) and situated a little ways away. Howard Road runs down one  one side of the cemetery. A small farm is behind the cemetery.

This is a rural community which is consistent with all I have learned about the Howard family in this area.

Who else is buried close?

Besides, Caswell and  his wife, their son Allen Suggs Howard is also buried here.  Interestingly most of the closer graves are more contemporary (i.e. in the  mid – to late 1900’s).  Most have the surname Howard. [Howard is a variation of Harward and used by later generations.] Other surnames common to the area are there, too.  A little ways off is a small “section” of what appears to older gravestones.  These stones are more worn and even off kilter. Closer inspection reveals most are of the Thomas family and dated into the 1800’s.

Hmmm……

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What Can We Learn?

  • This is a church cemetery, BUT  some of these graves, including Caswell’s pre-date the church! In this case, I knew when the church was founded, but if you do not know, check the church sign or cornerstone for a possible date the church was founded.
  • Faith was important to the Howard Family. After all, Caswell was a minister.
  • Multiple Howard/Harward generations are buried in this cemetery. Since many of the dates for the graves are contemporary, I would conclude the Howard family continues to be active in this church.

The Next Question

The biggest and most obvious question that arose when analyzing this cemetery was:

“Why was Caswell buried here?  

and

“If this is a church cemetery, why does a section pre-date the church?”

The Answer

The older section of this cemetery was originally the Thomas Family Cemetery located on what was originally the land of Mary Adline Thomas Harward’s parents.  After Caswell’s death in 1871 leaving her with young children, Mary Adline came “home” to bury her husband and raise her children. Eventually, her descendants inherited the land and they in turn provided land for the church’s current location. The Thomas Family Cemetery became incorporated into the current church’s cemetery.

What I Got Wrong!

Pretty much, everything! I completely missed  all of this the day I visited the cemetery. (Ahem!)  Weeks later as I worked the photographs I had taken that day, I realized what I had missed and began putting the pieces together.

4 Tips For Finding All of the Genealogy Clues in the Family Cemetery

These four tips apply to individual family cemeteries as well as  family plots in larger cemeteries.

1.Always ask Why?

  • Why is your ancestor buried in this location?

2.Note who is buried close by?

  • Even if you do not know who an individual is, make a note. This person(s) could turn out to be relatives and/or close associates of your ancestor. If not now, this information may be helpful to you in future research.

3.Determine why is the cemetery itself is in this location?

  • Is your ancestor in a cemetery “out in the middle of nowhere”? Why? What is the history of that land? Could it be the old home place or the family farm?

4.Observe the gravestone markings or designs.

  • Markings and engravings on the tombstone may indicate military service of your ancestor, religious beliefs, membership in the masons or other clues about your ancestor’s personal life.  Again, make note of the tombstones of those surrounding him/her. Markings on their stones may  provide you clues to the type of community where your ancestor lived. [Stories in Stone: A Field Guide to Cemetery Symbolism and Iconography is a nice resource to learn more about gravestone symbolism.]

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